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| re: Who is in the wrong here? netskyIam 13 Oct 08 8:39AM | Thread Closed |
^
poor gollum above lacks 's'ess. so, he's not really a gollum; only a precious
wanting to GIVE you the Ring.
gee.
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? unknown 13 Oct 08 8:41AM | Thread Closed |
no, it is you who is Gollum.
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? unknown 13 Oct 08 8:52AM | Thread Closed |
Tell the little emo freak to get a life, 18, I was working down pit at that point,had a wife, two kids, one on the way, gerbil, raccoon,Two hamsters, whippet, otter, three buggies (for gas) and a zebra, although we had to paint it black, to get it in ' local derby race', quite quick those zebra's.
kids today don't know they're born.
Or pull him to one side and say "If you carry on with this childish behaviour, i will tell everyone that we finished because you are hung like a raisin with a hard on "
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? FangzOfFire 13 Oct 08 9:46PM | Thread Closed |
I can stand here and proudly say that I am 17 and your ex is being a dick. Tell him to gtfo middle school and grow the hell up.
*shakes old-person fist* Damn kids ruining my generation.
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? unknown 13 Oct 08 9:56PM | Thread Closed |
still?
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? netskyIam 13 Oct 08 10:23PM | Thread Closed |
those last inputs of substance above, fanz' and the guy above: really nail it well.
I particularly like the idea of you saying you'll tell all his friends that he's hung like a raisen if he won't get out of your life.
There are some really sweet guys out there for you, as you know.]
And he's being a baby, a dickweed. Time for woman power to just say "don't call me, I won't call you, go your own way, leave me, I've got better plans ahead than be albatrossed by you", something like that. And if he dies of grief, well, nature culls the weaklings Her way.
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? unknown 14 Oct 08 12:28AM | Thread Closed |
Hahah Thanks guys... I don't think I'm going to ignore it to be honest now, because the fricking bruise is right where my brastrap sits >_<.
I think if he wanted a reason I couldn't carry on in the relationship, this is it, and I may as well tell him that.
Oh well, we've both been immature at the end of the day, so I won't be too harsh.
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? wendz 14 Oct 08 2:01AM | Thread Closed |
I echo Fangz. Just tell him STFU, n00b.
In gameplay, he would have been spammed with:
/join QQ
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? Mongrol 14 Oct 08 6:54AM | Thread Closed |
> I echo Fangz. Just tell him STFU, n00b.
>
> In gameplay, he would have been spammed with:
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> /join QQ
or
/wrist
or
enjoy your slice of failcake
though i'd have gone for QQ moar fail
;)
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| re: Who is in the wrong here? Isabelle5 14 Oct 08 8:21AM | Thread Closed |
> Thanks Isabelle, I'm 18, but he's only a month or so younger, so
> same age really.
> I split up with him four months ago, we went out for 6. I have tried
> to talk to him, I spent five hours doing so a week ago, attempting to
> make him understand that I do care how he feels, but that I wasn't
> happy in the relationship and couldn't carry on. He just won't
> accept it.
> Also, he still holds a grudge from about two years ago against a girl
> who went out with him for a matter or days. Won't speak to her and
> says he it still hurts him to talk about it, so I think this is one
> wound he won't let heal for years.
> I feel responsible for him, but also mildly annoyed that he can't
> control himself enough to allow our friends not to feel awkward, I let
> that side get the better of me today, which has probably sent him into
> another bout of depression.
> *sigh*.
Ah, so this is his emotional MO. It is not your problem then, if you have tried to be kind, tried to explain. Emotional blackmail is what he's doing and since he is only a young person, forgive him but do not be drawn in. One of my daughters actually had a young man tell her he'd kill himself if she didn't come back to him. I made a little visit to his parents, where he quite suddenly didn't feel suicidal anymore, when he saw that it was not helping his case of being a grown up with priviledges in front of his parents.
My suggestion is that when you know he's going to be someplace, don't be there. You will have to spend time perhaps not in the midst of the fun but you can't be around someone you love and get over them. You are NOT responsible for anyone else's happiness, that's up to them.
His parents need to get him some help. This is not healthy, he's not growing beyond it and to hate women he 'loved' is a bad sign. I feel bad for him, of course, but taking it out on you makes him only look more pathetic, doesn't it? You certainly can't feel romantic about someone your own age tugging at your sleeve and demanding your love. We've all probably been on both sides of that sleeve at one point or another!
Good luck.
Imc
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